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Tips for LGBTQ+ Students Going Home for the Holidays<\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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This page is adapted from The Trevor Project\u2019s \u201cHoliday Self-Care Tips for LGBTQ Youth\u201d<\/a>\u00a0blog post.<\/p>\n

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While it is always very important to recognize and appreciate happiness during the holidays, we must also take some time to be mindful of the difficulties that come for many LGBTQ folks during the holiday season. Folks acknowledging their gender identity or sexuality for the first time to their families or friends may struggle with the coming out process and may face adversity. Consider these tips when needing support this holiday season.<\/p>\n

Check in on loved ones and friends who are affirming of your identity.<\/h2>\n

Folks who do not have affirming networks, or may be in recovery, or coping with mental health issues, need compassion and support. Surround yourself with folks you are comfortable being around, whether it\u2019s through a phone call, text messages, and\/or hangouts, online or in person. Checking in on your friends is a great way to make sure that you stay connected to yourself and your community.<\/p>\n

Make a self-care plan.<\/h2>\n

Make a list of what your triggers are and set personal boundaries before you visit your family or friends, as well as a list of ideas that calm you down. This list of ideas can include making a comfort box containing things that help you calm down, eating comfort food, getting sleep, putting off homework, crying, rescheduling plans, reading a good book, watching TV, or doing nothing at all. Feeling your feelings is healthy. Keep some positive affirmations on hand that you can turn to when you need a reminder that you\u2019re doing the best you can if you\u2019re struggling. This selfcare list can also contain phone numbers and names of people that support you.<\/p>\n

Practice talking about your identity to a friend before you visit your family.<\/h2>\n

In the case that you may want to start having a conversation with your family about your pronouns or sexuality, practice talking about how you want to be treated. Expressing that you have an affection for the same sex, other genders, or none at all, or that you want to be called by a certain pronoun can be very empowering, but it may not always be respected, so if you need to walk away from any toxic conversations regarding your identity, that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

Remember that you deserve love and support.<\/h2>\n

Whether you decide to step away from a holiday party because you are feeling overwhelmed, deciding to go to a friend\u2019s house to be in a more supportive space, or if you are feeling suicidal, know that you are loved, you are worthy of compassion, and you matter.<\/p>\n

Keep a few resources on hand that you can turn to for support:<\/h2>\n